Aliveness Source Code™

At the heart of our work is the Aliveness Source Code™ – a living framework for leaders, teams, and communities to reconnect with what it means to be fully alive.


Leadership today is no longer just about growth and performance. It is about remembering our wholeness – and learning to lead from a place where mind, heart, body, and spirit are aligned. When we awaken aliveness in ourselves, we naturally bring it into our relationships, our organizations, and the wider systems we touch.

The Aliveness Code in Action

The Aliveness Code is more than a framework – it is a set of living practices that can be experienced, trained, and embodied. Over the years I have shaped these into programs and products that help leaders, forums, and organizations thrive in complexity, while staying deeply human.

Trust Circle Journeys

A proven methodology for creating safety, depth, and collective intelligence – where authentic connection unlocks transformation.

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Trust Circles are at the heart of the Aliveness methodology. They combine the rigor of Forum principles with deeper psychological and developmental practices. Each Circle is professionaly facilitated and designed to create a safe container where leaders can move beyond surface updates into profound self-reflection, vulnerability, and authentic connection.

Through guided practices — from shadow work and dialogue to constellations and purpose discovery — members learn to mirror each other, explore blind spots, and access the collective wisdom of the group. The result is a living field of trust and aliveness, where transformation happens for both individuals and the whole.

Aliveness Retreats

Pilgrimages into ancient and modern wisdom – journeys that reconnect you with purpose, aliveness, and the deeper roots of life.


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Not just a getaway, but a journey of remembrance. These retreats draw on the wisdom of ancient traditions and modern practices, inviting you to reconnect with what makes you truly alive. From sacred sites in Egypt and India to future journeys across the world, each retreat is designed as a pilgrimage into deeper layers of meaning – where leaders come together as columns of light, sharing wisdom across cultures, times, and places.

Executive Coaching

Intense, transformative sessions that uncover shadow, purpose, and possibility — helping you step into the fullest version of yourself.

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This is not coaching as usual. In 5–10 powerful sessions, we go straight to the core — working with shadow, purpose, and the dreams that call you forward. Using a range of therapeutic and developmental techniques, I help you see the patterns that limit you, reconnect with what makes you come alive, and claim the courage to lead as your whole self.


Customized Programs

Tailored experiences for leaders, forums, and organizations to unlock trust, resolve conflict, and create cultures of aliveness.

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No two groups are the same. Together we co-design programs that meet the unique needs of your Forum, executive team, or organization. Using the Aliveness methodology, I draw on practices such as shadow work, conflict resolution, constellations, dialogue, and family systems to create safe spaces for transformation.

Why Trust Circles?

Trust Circles are the heartbeat of our work. They are safe, facilitated spaces where the missing conversations can happen—conversations that shift relationships, unlock creativity, and generate collective intelligence.

Whether with a leadership team, a YPO Forum, or an intergenerational family, a Trust Circle is more than a meeting. It is a living field of connection, honesty, and growth.

In this short video, Loes shares the journey of a Trust Circle: from first steps into safety, to the deepening of trust, to the breakthroughs that shape leaders and organizations for years to come.

“Purpose flows like the ocean — deep, alive, and ever-expanding.”

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Trust Circles: Journeys of Transformation

Whichever path you choose, each Trust Circle is a journey —
from self to system, from surface to depth, from surviving to aliveness.

Trust Circle Journey for Individual Leaders

Step into a Circle where your leadership is mirrored back to you. Beyond coaching, these journeys guide you through shadow work, purpose discovery, and the Hero’s path of transformation. You’ll confront blind spots, expand awareness, and return with renewed courage, clarity, and aliveness.

Trust Circle Journey for Corporate Teams

Teams that thrive are teams that trust. These Circles surface the unseen dynamics — unspoken tensions, fear of conflict, hidden loyalties — and transform them into fuel for collaboration. By working above the line and aligning purpose, teams unlock collective intelligence and the energy to grow together.

The Next Level: Adapting Forum

Long-standing Forums often risk comfort over growth. These Circles renew depth and intimacy, inviting members to step beyond the cave of familiar patterns into new levels of vulnerability, shadow work, and shared vision. They keep the Forum alive, evolving, and truly transformative.

Trust Circles for Families

Families, too, long for spaces of truth and trust. These Circles bring Forum principles into family life, creating intergenerational conversations that strengthen bonds across parents, children, and beyond. By engaging the whole human — thinking, sensing, doing, and being — families rediscover each other with openness, love, and resilience.

The Dream of Aliveness

A world where life, not just growth, is the measure of success.

We envision a world where leadership is rooted in aliveness.
Where organizations grow not only in scale, but in wisdom.
Where success is measured not just by profit, but by how much life they bring to people, communities, and the planet.


Our vision is an ecosystem of leaders who awaken to their true essence — shaping cultures of trust, courage, and care. When aliveness becomes the code by which we live and lead, we create organizations that regenerate, not deplete. Leaders who embody wholeness, not fragmentation. Cultures of courage, not fear. Success measured by life, not only growth.

Aliveness Retreats: Together we return to what makes us truly alive

Immersive journeys where leaders reconnect with purpose, aliveness, and collective wisdom. From intimate Lighthouse Retreats to pilgrimages across Egypt, India, and beyond, these journeys weave ancient and modern wisdom into pathways of trust and transformation.

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Aliveness Retreats are not escapes, but returns — to source, to wholeness, to the wisdom we hold together.

Some take the form of Lighthouse Retreats: intimate circles where trust, presence, and shared experience create openings for transformation. Others are Pilgrimage Retreats: journeys to sacred landscapes such as Egypt, the Himalayas, South India, or Greece, where ancient and cultural wisdom is remembered and woven into modern leadership.

Each retreat is an initiation — a threshold moment where separation falls away. Participants reconnect body, mind, soul, and spirit; rediscover clarity of vision; and strengthen bonds of trust within a community of seekers.

At their heart, these retreats plant seeds of awe, connection, and collective wisdom — awakening leaders as columns of light who embody aliveness in their lives, organizations, and the world.

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